Self-Control is a Muscle You Must Exercise

Self-Control is a Muscle You Must ExerciseSelf-control is defined by the Merriam-Webster Dictionary as “restraint exercised over one’s impulses, emotions, or desires.”

But self-control doesn’t come naturally for most people. It can be difficult not to give in to triggers and temptations. Old habits die hard; healthy habits take work. It’s easy to get through the end of a hard day and feel entitled to spend the evenings escaping by turning to overeating, watching porn, or on the couch binge-watching television or playing video games.

Where does self-control come from? The Bible teaches that self-control comes from two things.

First, it’s a fruit of the Spirit. Galatians 5:22-23 (NLT) says, “But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!” (more…)

13 Keys to Reaching Your Goals

13 Keys To Reaching Your GoalsWe all love a promise of a fresh start! Where do we begin? Here are some keys to achieving your goals:

  1. Start with God. Trusting God with your goals means believing that He is the source of all good things and that He can instruct you about what is good.
  2. Make following God your primary goal, then as you reach your other goals, He will guide you in determining what they are and in reaching them.
  3. To reach your goals, say “yes” to who you are and “no” to others’ definitions and expectations of you.
  4. Sometimes it is just not God’s will that we reach a particular goal. Yet it is not His will that you never reach any of your goals. If that seems to be happening, look for how it may be a pattern in your life that needs addressing. (more…)